Category: Safe Haven
I feel lonely! I need some women to help me! If you love me, how much?
Hey Zack-
xxx-ooo-xxx-ooo. Can you feel the love?
When you say how much do we love you do you want the amount in weight, length or dollar value? Like, I love you worth 100 pounds, and I love you from here to California and I love you about 100,000 dolars (that is either American or Canadian or even Australian dollars). I hope this silly post brought a smile to your face and made you feel better. *big hug* Star
Do you love yourself
When I said how much, I mean mentally!
hmm sorry pal, I can't express love based on a snap decision, people might assume I'm desperate, happily that's not the case...
Um don't mean to sound blunt or anything but why should you care if someone loves you or not? What matters is that you love yourself, that's the most important. Not saying I don't love you, just why should you care?
I don't love you or anybody else I haven't met in person.
I care about people I don't know, but I can't say I love them. If anyone's having problems though, or just wants to talk, I don't mind though. I fcan try to help, and although I do have my beliefs as far as religion goes, I won't judge or hate people whose beliefs differ from mine. *smiles*
Leilani
Well, People have been knone to say that they love, and then stab me in the back with a ly!
I would give anyone the Biko side affect if they messed you up, tha'ts how much I care for you.
yes, before anyone can love you, ya have to prove that you love yourself! and, normally you'd find that we're not going to immediately fall in love with ppl we've barely spoken too! Lol
Ilove you has become a very easy thing to say and quite honestly, I would need to have known that person very well before I'd even consider believing those 3 little words in many instances they are loaded with such frivolity and insincerity....I'd never say ILY to anyone close, with meaning it completely and drink is not involved in that equation...smile
damned gremlins! smile... without meaning it completely...
Gremlins Rule!
yep you're right Goblin! it's so overused these days. it's sad really! really, define true love!
I love you.
Just kidding. Honestly what is the big deal with love? I think the reason that people are overly concerned with it and talk of being stabbed and that is because they are expected to and they either a) get to insane and look for something that isn't there or b) a) but they know it and just want to get attention. Call me a calculatory loser if you will because I said so. People need to remember to think, it's the way to go.
James
For me to say I love somebody I have to get to know the person for quite sometime. And Zack, since I only meet you on the net and not in person, for an extended period of time, it's hard to give those 3 words. This not only goes for you but for any other guy I meet online, I first have to get to know them and who they are.
hmmm that's the ultimate question I think a definition of true love could be the lovers seperated by war who wrote to each other no matter what, and still wanted to be together all through the lasting trauma of battle, and waiting for news..that for me is a good definition of love..
Well, I haven't had hardly anyluck with anygirl that I have been with! I am the who alwas gets blaimed for everything! Sometimes I would think about doing the unthinkable! You know what it is. Cristeana, Biko, How much longer can Ideel with this depression?
well, personally I hate you, will always hate you, and think that you're a pathetic piece of human waste!
that wasn't nice MD considering he just expressed he was depressed damnit! ZM, don't listen to him. he was trying to be funny! (normally it would have been considered a good joke but in the said circumstances that was uncalled for)
SO since he's depressed and he's letting us all know on the boards he obviously wants us to act like we love him and give him "huggles xoxoxxooxoxox <33333" which is unnecessary and even if I was seeking attention I would not want that kind of meaningless crap. Saying that I think he's glad he got the attention he wanted.
James
talking about attempting suicide, can often be a cry for help and should never be ignored, though the majority never mention how they are feeling they just slip away and do it...I know I've had 2 attempts and both were serious...
talking about attempting suicide, can often be a cry for help and should never be ignored, though the majority never mention how they are feeling they just slip away and do it...I know I've had 2 attempts and both were serious...
MD? How dare you say such things! RDfreak even told you how I felt, and you are making me even more angryer then before! Someone, Rdfreek, Heather, Biko, Someone do something!
Who ever this it's a consperis or james guy is, not the professer, james, don't you know how people feel sometimes! And this is not meaningless crap that your talking about! If all of you want to know, I have gotten so angry one time, I had to go to the hospittle! I don't I want to go back there, so don't, make, me, any angrier, then I already am! Don't do it! RDfreek, Cristena, Heather, Biko, Deva, LILKimmey, and especial Rd freek, I, will, not, take, any, of, this, kind, of, talk!
Zack listen man that's exactly what the eejit wants, a reaction, now he knows your vulnerable and how to get to you..the guy is a friendless imbecile with no future...if you want to talk I'd be glad to listen and nothing you choose to say, will go any further than my inbox
Zack by you reacting like this you're telling the devil that he can win and you should not let that happen. Personally you have to love yourself for someone to love you. I'm not there with you, I'm not in your house so it's not like I can hold your hand and say "Come on baby" is it? I haven't had a guy in my life for my whole 21 years of life and you think I'm gonna get all shriveled up and pout about that? Obviously not! Life goes on.
Well, your right, but remember, I have a anger problem! I'm not going to sit around and let someone talk to me like that!
I'm sorry but no I don't love you and not a lot either. But I do like you a lot though!!! hahahahahahahahahahah *sexy*
First Ather u r an idiot. Nnd second, I understand how zack feels and u can talk to me anytime.
Well you can't grow up in the real world thinking everybody should feel sorry for you. If you're so angry, get help then! Don't take it out on us!
And what if nobody loves you you're gonna get a gun and shoot them? I mean, people have their own choices of who they like and don't like so you can't make somebody love you if they don't feel the need to.
I have an anger problem too but I know how to deal with it without shriveling up cause nobody loves me. Nobody's gonna feel sorry for me cause I don't want them to. So if someone loves you, a ok. if they don't, then screw them and move on to somebody else.
Hi Zack, we've not talked before so first of all "Hello." Well, one thing in your favor in my way of thinking is that you have come to a point in life to where you recognize that you have an anger problem. That is a beginning. May you be enabled to continue to work this out and find a contentment and a relationship that brings satisfaction. There was ones who had been close to me and never admitted to the anger problem that they had and it was tough on some of us who were around this person. I think had they been able to reach that point of understanding then they could have taken needful steps on the journey of working through it and coming out better. Sad to say this person I knew died, not from taking their life, just from well, it was their time to go... it is just that sometimes I think of how different for the better everything could have been... Hey, Zack, The Best to you as you face this difficult time. Connie
Zack, I understand your point and everything that u say when u make the comment. However, I strongly would recommend reframing from posting anything like this in the future on this site. One thing I have noticed is that certain people will pick out your weaknesses and play to them as much as possible. Now I'm not a girl, so I'm not going to say that I love u. However u can feel free to chit chat with me at any time. Also, the people that want to post to this topic negatively. That just shows that u have nothing better to do then pick on someone who is hurt and down. And that is just wrong; it shows a lot about your character. If u don’t like the post then don’t post to it.
Zack, someone out there loves you and don't forget that! I love you as a friend. I truly don't think you should let yourself get so depressed; it's not healthy!You don't have to feel alone, because I don't think you are.
I can't really say much since I just met you, but you can feel the ongoing love.
I really think that I would not be here if it wern't for yall! The one thing I can't stop crying over is my dead grand-dad! He died of alltimers, at age 68! What makes me cry is that his burthday is ten days after mine
OK OK if that is true I am sad for you and what not but why are things like this brought up at the most voncenient of times? To tell the truth that has nothing to do with the question about others loving you in my book. My grandfather died of throat cancer in 2001 and I try to guilt people with it. ANd you're asking people if they love you and when you get negative responses you go off? Man... sometimes people might give you the "wrong" answer, get over it.
James
That is I don't try and guilt people with it... my mistake.
James
I think you're an awesome friend, Zack, and I don't think you have to feel alone, I truly believe that there is someone out there for everyone and believe me, I feel your lonliness. it's hard sometimes, but we just gotta keep the faith and remember that when the time is right, we'll find our special someone. and until then, we have friends who love us. keep your head up and stay positive!!
canadian diva
Um sorry for your loss. And tough question, what does that have to do with people not loving you? What do you want us to do, baby you? Seems like to me that's what you want. I agree with James on this one. You're gonna get people that'll give you right and wrong answers so just keep your head up high and move on.
Zack have you ever tried bereavement counselling and you will not get some patronising numpty, with no idea, the sessions are held by people who have experienced the pain of losing someone...3 yrs ago I tried to re start Dad's heart after a massive MI, and not day goes by, that I wish, I had succeeded and yes I still cry particulary around the days we would have spent together..so you are not alone man ...
Stop thinking that I want to get babied!
I don't I've seen people werse off then me!
Why are som
Well sorry to say my friend but the way you're acting characterizes a sign of needing someone to hold your hand and feel sorry for you. If that's what you want, well be your own guest!
Crap. Why are you talking so negative? Your starting to sound like Jinnifer!
First of all, me and Jennifer are 2 different people so get that straight. I'm C Mitchell, she's Jennifer. Got that? You need a demonstration?
So don't go comparing me to Jennifer cause my name's not Jennifer.
um, who's Jeniffer?
Christ you try to help someone and you get abuse.
Zack you will not get what you are looking for here mate not with that attitude, people will just retaliate and it's not pretty....
Here's an idea they are siamese twins and Jennifer is the outspoken 1
No? Jinifer is the one they call matallica girl.
Zack,
I can't say I know you very well; I've only spoken with you a few times. I love everyone, for we are all sisters and brothers in Christ. About your depression... well, being 14, I probably haven't had all the experiences y'all have had, but I have tried committing suicide once, for I was sick of people betraying me. And when I tried, God told me while I was trying to make a nuce for my neck (sorry, can't spell), that He would take me when He was ready. Also, a few days after, I told my dad about it, and he said to me:
"Melissa, I don't have any friends. All I've got is Mom, Cindy (my little sister), and you. If I lost one of you,..." You know how that goes. I realized how selfish it was of me to try to commit suicide, and I'm glad God stopped me right then and there. Sometimes, I think about it, but I just pray that God keeps bad thoughts like that out of my mind, for I want to have peace of mind. Suicide is not the way out. Christ is. If you want to, please talk to me about it.
Also, about your anger problem... I'll be praying for you about that.
Thanks!
You know, I have never seen such people say things about me!As much as yall have, I don't even think that the way some people are betraying me, and I can't take that anymore! Another thing, one of the reasons why I feel this way is because the abuse I had to go through as a child! I don't want to go through any more of that again!
Zack, I'll be praying for you as well. I don't want you to have to go through anymore of that, either. you really need to just take what some people say on here though. you have to understand that not everyone is gonna like you, and there will be those who will try to hurt and bring you down, but you just have to stay positive, count it all joy and think about all the people who do like you.
Zack, I'll be praying for you as well. I don't want you to have to go through anymore of that, either. you really need to just take what some people say on here though. you have to understand that not everyone is gonna like you, and there will be those who will try to hurt and bring you down, but you just have to stay positive, count it all joy and think about all the people who do like you.
I think your right!
Well, whenever someone puts me down, I just od not ask myself, "why me?" insteadi just go through the pain, because what is coming out is gonig to be.... for a good cause, and well some of the cl's or people here usually tend or make silly, ilogical jokes, so despite all that
I see what you mean Loo!
Awwww, MadDog, that was mean, and nasty. I'm shocked ! Depression sucks and is not funny. I know, I go through it myself.
I will not take it!
hi at first i didn't but now that i know u i kinda like u!